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One thing that's been messing with my mind comes after a Thanksgiving spent with my sister and her family-by-marriage. Not once did they mention those less fortunate. Didn't donate any money or food or time to a food bank or soup kitchen or shelter. Didn't look at the spread of food big enough for five families and think it was overboard, or even gauche. Didn't care about the perfectly good food they threw down the garbage disposal...didn't want to be bothered with boiling down the turkey carcass to make turkey soup. Too much trouble. Sent me home with some leftovers I didn't need or want, because otherwise "it would just get thrown away". They know I work in a charitable food pantry, but the few comments I made were totally ignored.
Hard for me to believe this is my sister, raised in the same household, with the same parents that taught us to think of others during holidays and hard times. And when you want to be with family during holidays....it's becoming increasingly difficult. :(
I can see why that would bother you! Is she the one married to the Greek guy? Is there some kind of cultural thing that keeps them from donating, or are they just ignorant to the plight of those less fortunate?