That series is a blight upon literature and media. So many more talented people should have been millionaires... :sour:
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I have no interest in seeing the movies or reading the books. I have a teenaged cousin who is wild about them, and another who says she prefers "real vampires."
And if you could lick your own bits you'd never leave your bedroom.
Hey now, dogs lick their own asses too! Then they slobber around and people kiss their mouths!
At least cats have a special comb tongue and have the smarts to puke out the fur balls. Also, I've never heard of a cat who eats turds.
:donkey:
solutions
1. "pink is the new black"
2. she can be goth if she produces and recites at least one goth poem per week
but you know, it would be really cool if you could find out exactly how she's been thinking wrt this matter! do a little article for your paper or something :P
Don't know any skaters who go baggy anymore. Its all skin tight jeans for some reason :bulb:
I used to love my baggy jnco jeans, they felt so free. I still have mine from highschool, worn and washed so often they have such a smooth soft feel now :heart:. I don't think I've seen a good pair of baggy pants for almost 10 years now.
That's neat to hear that "goth" still exists. Out here in Phoenix its been completely overrun by "emo," which involves a somewhat similar look but adds in pink and some really stupid haircuts and a lot of whining about the harsh realities of upper-middle class suburban life.
Edit:
Emo:
http://www.emohaircutstyles.com/wp-c...09/emo-kid.jpg
Goth:
http://www.sheimagazine.com/blog/wp-.../Goth-kids.jpg
And now we have hipsters...which seems to have devolved from emo, and involves feeling like you're better than everyone else, have better tastes, and because of this can passive-aggressively mock everything everybody else likes...
...hooray for the new age of narcissism... :sour:
Yeah, but that's also the fun part about the hipsters (and emos and to some extent goths). The fact that they feel and act that way just makes them hilarious to watch/mock. "I'm a unique and beautiful snowflake who has extra special self-worth because of the products I consume." Then again, that's all of us to some extent. But the hipsters, they really believe it.
The answer is...
"There were goth kids on a tv show I watched and the kids on the show were making fun of them but I thought they looked really cool and I want to look like that too."
Anyone want to make band suggestions for her? Assuming she doesn't want to just look the part while continuing to listening to Jonas Brothers and watching iCarly.
Well...debatably:
Evanescence (earlier stuff is better than newer stuff, especially since its more Amy Lee now than Evanescence)
Lacuna Coil
Opeth
...:sour:
To be quite honest this might lead to her being teased by people who aren't goth, and by goths who like to make fun of people for only dressing goth and not being goth...as per their definition of goth...
I'm finding this entire thing bizarre, anyway.
And I'm still expecting she'll change her mind before too long, anyway.
The difference between the US goth culture and the one over here is quite hilarious :D Ours is terribad too but for different reasons
I think they're pretty different everywhere, the different subcultures at least. For instance the skaters/goths/punks etc. here will at least still go to school and be productive members of society in their own unique way, and hold a job in order to acquire money and purchase the things they want, whereas the ones I saw when vacationing in Montreal were either skipping school or not holding a job, hanging out in front of the local church, trying to beg for money to buy cigarettes or alcohol, then going home when it rained/snowed.
As the goth culture here has been popularized and mainstreamed by the likes of H&M, Hot Topic, Urban Outfitter, etc. its become more of a "how you feel about life and stuff" than how someone dresses, since even now the most preppy person can be seen sporting black or dark colored nail polish, spiked accessories, and objects with a black or skull motif...
...sort of on topic, most hilarious thing I've seen was on the train. I'm sitting across from some 40 year old balding business-man in complete suit and tie with polished shoes and leather briefcase talking incessantly with someone on his blackberry about stock trading when all of a sudden his personal phone starts ringing with a music ringtone...
"I'm tired of being what you want me to be
Feeling so faithless lost under the surface
Don't know what you're expecting of me
Put under the pressure of walking in your shoes"
...:haha:
I'm kind of betting on the fact that I'm not going to be uptight about it preventing her from going bat-shit insane. We can hope, anyway.
Share, Nessie.
I don't think I've ever been in one of those stores. And I'm going to continue to avoid it now. Surely she can find whatever it is her little heart desires without me having to go to the scary stores.
Do my black toenails say something about me that I don't know? I'm not sure if outlook on life is really what matters. Then again, I don't know. My friends and I mocked the wannabes when I was in high school. And you could even tell who was who while people were wearing school uniforms.
I'm willing to bet Hot Topic would help more than hinder your cause. Its no where near goth, but its spunky, and I'm betting that will win her over. Pink and dark plaid skirts, knee high strapping boots, funky braclets and bookbags.
If you're lucky she might even gravitate towards the gamer wardrobes.
Well if I'm really lucky she'll decide that what she wears doesn't matter at all, but I'm not really counting on that one.
Cute girl.
Did you warn her about helmet hair?
http://www.thestoreon44.com/dimages/goth.jpg
Surest way to prevent your daughter turning into a Goth is beating her to it. So I say, go to the shop, buy a Goth outfit and take a few pictures, post them here.
It's about 12 years since I was tight friends with any goths, but the following were in at the time
The Cure
Pixies
The Crow Soundtrack
Nine Inch Nails
Tool
Many of these albums had the Parental Advisory: Explicit Lyrics stickers attached for a reason
I believe most goths nowdays are just what people call emos. Emos seem to be into paramore I believe
There is a weird resemblance to Emo and Goth now-a-days. I generally go into hot-topic and they have a different array of things people can buy. Clothing, cd's, and such. Then they have small sections dedicated to fan based stuff like Twilight or Alice in Wonderland (for an example). It's become a more universal store, because you basically see anyone and everyone drop by in there. The only thing I consider riske for someone underage is that they sell women's lingerie, which to some people, could give them awkward questions raised by their kids. :P
It really has changed since I was in middle/highschool. Though I don't think it's a bad thing your daughter wants to find her own style, but I do suggest you watch the friends she'll make in dressing like such, lolli. (it sounds very stereotyped, but I can only speak from personal experience)
I experienced a new breed recently (in terms of groups) called 'Scene Kids'. I wasn't quite sure how tackle the issue as i'm out of the loop with all this 'new age groupie culture' kids these days have. I was told, by a 'rocker', that 'Scene Kids' are people who conform to the current trends promoted by the punk/goth/emo/hardcore music genres in order to appear cool. So apparently when My Chemical Romance was the best thing, they all brought merchandise relating to said band.
These days i find it quite strange how people relate 'clothing' to 'what music you list to'. For example, i usually dress smart casual or smart (work reasons) but while at the gym we was discussing concerts. A mate of mine wanted Peter Andre concert tickets for his missus (or so we are led to believe) and he also wanted Chesney Hawkes tickets some time ago, so we mocked him. Anyway, he was talking about seeing Madonna once and saying it was a good gig. I then, jokingly, said that you've not been to a gig until you've witnessed the might of Metallica. As i had my iTouch on me i showed him some of my pictures i took when i went to see them last. They all looked at me, stunned, and said "We never ever took you for someone who listens to something like Metallica. I'd never go to such a gig, i'd die". They looked at what i was like as a person, the way i dressed and assumed something totally different.
Strange, so very.