Not like that they haven't. It's not self-defense if you set-up the conflict and carried out any escalations in force. Premeditation is irreconcilable with self-defense. Being the person pushing events is irreconcilable with self-defense. There exists no doctrine (nor should such a doctrine exist) whereby you have universal license to kill, Lewk, no matter how circumscribed the context.
And in the one (not several) state that allows anything of the sort, that law is used for purposes like
this
You don't. But you do have less right to your property than anyone does to their own lives. Your propery, Lewk, is nowhere near as important as you think it is.