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This is only clever until you realize the tensions and hierarchies that exist within the groups described by the "LGBTQ" label (with narcissistic gay men at the top and transgender women near the bottom, with some gay and lesbian people calling for their exclusion from the collective label) and until you realize that, just because you can claim to be a member of a group, it doesn't mean you get carte blanche to deliberately be a fucking asshole.
In the post you were replying to, I didn't only say that Chris Rock was black, I also said that he was a talented comedian who is known (or believed) to care deeply about the issues he jokes about. He uses his talent to address important and difficult issues from the perspective of someone who's been directly affected by those issues, so he has credibility and respect. When joking about black people, he doesn't punch down in order to satisfy some deep-seated and utterly base need to hurt others.
Milo's free to call gay men "fags" if he likes. Gay people often do, and accept the label when its used amongst themselves. If you, however, were to call a random person a "fag", that might be different. If it's used as a slur, it's different. When an obnoxious and hate-filled gay man implicitly beats down on transgender women who have difficulties "passing", and fans the flames of harrassment, that's different.