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You're correct in that it's not necessarily an individual's job to place a stranger's feelings over their own safety in brief otherwise meaningless interactions. But if many individuals are treated like scum throughout their lives on the basis of prejudice rather than on the basis of observable and demonstrably dangerous behaviour then the society in which they exist has a problem and it'd also be understandable if many of those individuals kinda feel like shit in interactions with the people who treat them like scum.
Except that we're now fast moving on from prejudice purely on attacking someone based somebodies skin colour etc outside their control to areas of self-preservation where there is a concern based on legitimate observable trends.
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It's curious that you two both bring up the example of roving gangs of drunk teenagers. Is there any particular reason why you believe that's analogous to a solitary young black man happening to stand outside his own home? Drunkenness and rowdiness are often clearly observable behaviours that can be causally linked with eg. being hassled, assaulted, disturbed, etc. Do you believe in treating a well-behaved sober teenager in the same way as you'd treat a gang of drunk teenagers?
If I'm alone at night I'd keep a wary eye on any teenager (black or white).
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I don't think those actions would be objectionable regardless of any sexist component, nor do I think men in general should feel slighted--in general--by such actions considering the otherwise privileged position men enjoy in society (compare this to white men crying about being subjected to "reverse racism" in the form of affirmative action :o), considering the public awareness of how scary it is to walk home alone at night as a woman, and considering the negligible impact a woman crossing the street has on an innocent man walking home alone at night. I do think it'd be sad if a woman were more inclined to treat a coloured man as a potential rapist than a white man.
Go on compare it. You said compare it so do so please.
What great privilege does a white child of a trailer-park single mother have over the black child of two wealthy and successful Harvard Law School graduates? You pointedly refused to ever answer this in that thread so if you are now talking about "crying" about "reverse racism" I'm guessing you are implying that such privileges do exist and/or that in your opinion racism is perfectly acceptable in the right circumstances?
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Now, do you think walking home alone at night constitutes "suspicious behaviour"? Do you think the police should stop and interrogate and frisk a man for exhibiting that particular behaviour? Do you think that should happen over and over again?
Maybe. Need further information.
Do you think driving home at night constitutes "suspicious behaviour"? Do you think the Police should stop and interrogate and breathalyse a man for exhibiting that particular behaviour? Do you think that should happen over and over again?
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Wrt responsibility, I think that in any non-threatening interaction, and in any longer interaction, both sides have a responsibility to keep a somewhat open mind, to give each other the benefit of the doubt and to be ready to re-evaluate each other. Unless they hate each other of course, but they should hate each other for reasons better than "you're a brownie from Bangladesh with a Muslim-sounding name".
You can simultaneously both give the benefit of the doubt and treat people with caution etc
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Hey, what happened to scrutinizing police policy, what they consider "suspicious behavior", and profiling by race that has nothing to do with actual behavior? :confused:
Rand, you didn't answer my questions a page back, but added anecdotes about Gypsies/Travelers/Roma. That describes your take on personal safety (that may/may not be related to racism or bigotry), but doesn't address the role of police in the community. :confused:
It has nothing to do with racism. Travellers are not a race and are not identifiable by skin or accent or any such - and I never said Roma, I've never dealt with Roma. They're identifiable by behaviour.
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The US also has roving caravans, especially after disasters when construction trades are needed but hard to find...but they're not all Roma gypsies, let alone scammers. Sometimes they're a group of unemployed white guys pooling their resources to go where the work is, and yes sometimes they are scammers. Local police want to be notified, to check out permits and validity of insurance or warranties, and pass on "suspicious behavior" to state or federal officials that track interstate fraud, or elaborate scams that harm the public.
Then that would be a different situation. Its more common for people to live in mobile homes in the US and of course after natural disasters (which we don't get so aren't relevant) its different. :rolleyes:
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That doesn't mean restaurants or grocery stores (or even motels) can deny them service, based on some vague feeling that they're "bad" people or scheming crimes. That kind of soft bigotry is just as insidious and destructive as outright racism, with the added element of vigilantism that's outside the criminal/legal justice systems.
I've NEVER denied service to someone. I would refuse to swap change (due to "change scamming" which I've been burned by just one before) but since I've never worked in a bank that's not a denial of service. They'd be served but I'd make sure the payment went through smootly.
I was a victim of a change scam once when new to dealing with cash and the public. Since then keeping precautions has prevented it being repeated.
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I take it that's what "Chav" means to Brits, and they're identified by their clothing? Same could be said about US gangs that use 'colors' and certain clothing to identify themselves. Difference is that US gangs generally commit crimes against other gangs, not 'random' attacks on just anyone walking down the street. They have a (perverse) criminal code similar to the Mob or organized crime, something "chavs" don't seem to share. :bulb:
Chavs are identifiable by appearance. Hard to exactly put your finger on it other than a "know it when you see it". Typically shaved head, particular style of clothing, etc, etc