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Amen to the crazy woman talk. Luckily I never dated any, but my friends have, and it's a nightmare.
Or she talks loud to not be disturbed by you, and fnids you creepy because you see anything she does as a secret message that she wants you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Knux897
What happened is that you started acting all creepy-like because you wanted a date.
I really wish there was a cure for teenageitis.
A sound beating with a belt. :up:
Well...I think our friend talked to her today because she stopped telling me to shut up and started coming closer...I wanted to talk to her on the bus, but she wasn't there. So I wonder if I should text her and ask her to meet me someplace because we need to talk. I know she may have been playing games, but I think shes only doing it because she wants me to ask her out and it became awkward causing her to cover it up with anger. Which of course lead to my "desperate sounding" texts causing her to think I'm creepy. So... I need to find out if he did indeed talk to her, as I only saw him in the morning and he hadn't done it yet.
lor you turned 'er offa men... :D
Well...the friend replied back and he said she would agree to stop, but apparently shes pissed at me. He said he couldn't tell me why though...but he said she might stop in a week or so if I just forget it 0_O. Now Im pissed because shes angry at me for nothing.
nah man don't be like thatQuote:
Originally Posted by Knux897
anger leads to hate and hate leads to suffering
and highschool's full of suffering as it is, no need to add to it =)
let that anger just fizzle out over the weekend. no texts, no analysis, just smile, breathe, and go slowly
Knux, I advice large quantities of beer, a few mates and a binger while complaining about women. At the end you'll tell each other you don't need em. The next day you'll be too hungover to care.
If that doesn't solve it the day after that, repeat the process.
I guess I'm just going to have to ride this out then and see if she comes back to me...
Amen. I can see you are experienced at this :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Ziggy Stardust
The problem with "large quantities of beer" is...he is underage. The beer might lead to arrest, and a ticket for MIP, which might seriously hinder his chances of "getting the girl". Then too, if he has college hopes, a police record before the age of 17 is NOT a good thing! :haha:
Frankly Knux, I think your best bet is to call her and ask her out for a coke. Don't go all fancy with dinner and a movie type thing. Maybe ask if she would like to go bowling or play pinball or whatever it is teenagers do nowadays! The point of doing something like that is, you are NOT alone with each other and it's non-threatening.
I thought it was a general guide to living well rather than specific advice to this situation Knux imagines he is in.Quote:
Originally Posted by Flixy
I don't even think I can ask her out anymore :( I have to resolve whatever reason she decided to become angry at me for.
Meh.
Give it a week or so. Don't do anything stupid (more of a disclaimer, than an actual piece of advice; I know you're 16 and like this girl. You can still try, though. :p ). Her anger most likely won't hold that long.
but does he really want a girl with so short an attention-span???!?!!??!?!?!
That depends what he wants to do with her. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Aimless
She's wacko anyway, someone had to do it. Although i am quite proud! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Aimless
He's 16. Guess.Quote:
Originally Posted by Aimless
THE FUCK HAVE WE WASTED 5 FUCKING PAGES ON TEEN ANSGST FOR
FUCK GUYS ?!
I MEAN WHU ..!>?!
What i mean to say is ...
by what measure has a FUCKING stupid thread about a kiddie's teeenie valentine frustration reaching the top of the general chat area for
5 pages?
th4e fuck ?
Because you touch yourself at night, Bukaroo.Quote:
Originally Posted by Timbuk2
I'm about to create a much better one, though.
About tween angst, even.
IS THAT WRONG?Quote:
Originally Posted by littlelolligagged
daytime too.
twice
at least
i WILL contribute - either in vrebal or physical form i yam yet to decideQuote:
I'm about to create a much better one, though.
oops shit sorry :(
Nope, not wrong at all.
Twice, even :D
Someone been on the juice last night?
2 bottles of wine in total :(
i only went for a small drink after work with my team
Red or White wine?Quote:
Originally Posted by Timbuk2
A small drink with work colleagues? No such thing. A group of us sometimes go to the pub at lunch, have a pint (or two for some!). The afternoon however becomes very entertaining as the effects of alcohol makes everyone slightly bubbly and happy.
Well...she still wont start a conversation with me, but she stopped telling me to shut up. Plus she sat behind me in 5th period and discussed relationships...loudly...with some other people
Do you really want a girlfriend who thinks that communication means to share her private thoughts with the entire community?
It was gossip actually
Stop being so pedantic. Either way, she certainly comes across as HM to me (HM = High Maintenance).Quote:
Originally Posted by Knux897
sigh, I don't know why I'm gonna bother. because you're not going to listen to any advice and have to find out the hard way.
You need to man up a little. Just go up to her, talk to her yourself and stop depending on your friends to do the work. She's never going to respect you if you keep acting like a whiny little boy about it. Now, when you talk to her, it needs to be you and her, not in front of a crowd and dramatic. Just be upfront, ask her why she's been acting this way to you, why she's so angry.
If she won't talk to you straight about it, then you know she's just playing games and you need to start ignoring her. You keep boosting her ego (in a bad way) when you let her act like that towards you. If you start to ignore her, she will either realize she fucked up, or she'll leave you alone. Unless she's absolutely psycho, and acts worse. Then you definitely don't want her.
i know you're only 16, but if you keep playing the doormat, you will always be a doormat to girls. There's a line between being accomodating and being walked on. You'll probably just have to find this out the hard way like we all did, by having your heart stomped on a few times. Seems like this girl isn't worth it, but if you want to try, at least be a little more direct.
I was planning on finding her and asking her to talk a walk. She keeps (again) loudly telling my 5th period where she hangs out. It was where we used to hang out before she started ignoring me, so we went to seperate "hang outs". I think I'm just going to ask her if we can put whatever this was behind us and offer her a hug.
You're not offering a hug because you want to put it behind you, you're offering a hug because damnit you want a hug and she never gives you one. Be honest with yourself, man.
It would be a good idea to talk to her directly. If she won't respond, or still acts strange, then it's a good sign to move on. She's playing games, and if you are more direct (be nice, but tell her the truth) maybe she will change her tune. But prepared that possibly she may not.
Good luck! :)
Yah, of course I want one :) I have a feeling she does too.Quote:
Originally Posted by NGS
I honestly don't think shes playing games anymore. I think this is what happened:Quote:
Originally Posted by Catgrrl
. I give her some balloons and beef jerky(she requsted it) for her birthday.
. The next day she goes up to people in my 5th period and starts whispering about me to them right in front of me, emphasizing the words "my name" and "girlfriend". When I ask her what shes talking about, she tells me to shut up.
. I ask her on the bus what it was about and she again tells me to shut up. Same thing when I text her. She then goes up to people in class and tells them she wants to tell them something but she says she thinks its too awkward to tell them( 0_O )
. The weekend comes and I text her a frowny face and the message "I want to talk to you". I then proceed to ask "Does your phone not work, or are you ignoring me?" and then "Mmm...are you alright?"
. It turns out she was grounded and her phone was taken away so she didn't see them until Monday. Apparently 8 out of 10 texts were mine and she tells people that shes annoyed with me. People then come up to me in the halls and say she thinks I'm creepy.
. Then I ask our friend to talk to her and he says that she would stop, but she still wasn't too fond of me and she refuses to tell anyobdy why.
. She won't talk to me now, but she will get close behind me in my 5th period and gossips about her friends relationships and guys she thinks are hot but would never go out with.
So I think, it started with her not knowing how to respond to my questions about what she was talking about me and covering it up by telling me to shut up. Then the texts may have creeped her out, but I think our friend told her that I felt really bad about being labeled creepy and she started coming closer again. So...I just have to see what happends.
Based on all that information, she doesn't like you "that way" and she's not being honest about it with you, I don't know if she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings or what. But you need to back off at this point, and just ignore her for a while. No texts. Only talk to her in person, like I suggested, one more time. If she doesn't respond, or give you an honest answer, please just move on. There are plenty of other girls out there that are not as much trouble, :)
You can't be serious. :bored: She doesn't like you. Just accept it and move on. Otherwise, you're just confirming the fact that you're creepy, which will hurt you not just with her but with every girl in your school. :bored:
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