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LittleFuzzy
There are a number of states where I can legally marry (or the full legal equivalent, which is not what I'd prefer but which is not, at present, worth making waves about) and as of last June, the Feds have to recognize it, even if I then move to a state like Texas. And even in Texas, a number of the legal factors like medical proxies can be gained individually, though it's more work to gain them individually.
But that's not "Equal Access", and discriminatory at face value. Don't kid yourself, Fuzzy....you can still be denied hospital visitation, your medical power-of-attorney can be voided, and your Will can be nullified....depending on state laws.
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At this point in time we're mostly talking about convenience and/or de jure recognition compared to the present de factop recognition, in those states which haven't already turned our way. Insisting on getting everything immediately is not worth the potential political cost or decades-long headache, given what we already have. Getting everything is still desirable, it's still something we should be pushing for and advocating, but we're at a point where we can afford to do it right. It's not a question of whether or not we should have to wait, GGT. The world isn't perfect, it's never going to be perfect, and it's IDIOTIC to act like an ideal world is the starting point rather than the goal. I am many things, pedantic, fussy, and so on but one thing I am not is an idiot.
Of course you're not an idiot! But this isn't about "doing it right" or perfection. :confused: The