It was never a date. It started out as getting some people together to go bowling and asking her to come and advancing to "Hey wanna hang out?" and once we were out, I would see if she was interested or not. Unfortunately that never happened and after a few texts earlier she might think I'm a bit odd with my gloomy "Right...well whatever then" texts. I think the only course now would be to tell her how I feel and see how she reacts. Unless she said "Why do you wanna hang out with me so badly lol?" to figure out if it was a date or not......idk
