It takes two to tango is true, but only one partner gets to choose the tune, and can force the other to keep dancing. I'm merely stating that once the decision that both parties made results in a pregnancy, only one of them has control of the consequences. In my own clumsy manner I'm trying to say that, ideally, this decision should made before being sexually active. That each person is responsible for making their desires clear to the other. Not very romantic I admit, but neither is an unwanted pregnancy. Sorry ladies, but that is the cost for sexual equality.
Edit: I assumed you, like most people in developed countries, knew about BC. I was being intentionally asinine to make the point that better contraception is not the answer.





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