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    Default Women are crazy, yes?

    No?

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    Women are crazy. Men, to, are crazy. Children? Crazy. etc.
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    I must say, that article does not show many things I recognize from my dealings with women.
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    Interesting article.

    I actually think it works both ways...more aggressive women "gaslight" too: their husbands and coworkers, male and female. I know because I am guilty of it myself.

    We're all a little crazy; male and female. I'd be the first to admit there are times when something hits me the wrong way and I react; and it may have no rational basis on it.

    Can't speak for all women as I am an oddity myself, so I don't always fit into a neat stereotype.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Steely Glint View Post
    Women are crazy. Men, to, are crazy. Children? Crazy. etc.
    Right, but some genders (like the female gender, for example) and age groups (like the teenage age group, for example), are a lot crazier than others.

    Quote Originally Posted by Catgrrl View Post
    We're all a little crazy; male
    Crazy, or stupid? Because there's a difference, and in my experience, thinking with your penis leads to stupid. Having ovaries leads to crazy.
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    Not crazy, just irrational.
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    Fair enough. Let the record show I didn't call males stupid; that was all Cain

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    I used to think women were insane. Then I had kids. Women don't seem so insane anymore...
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    Well, we purposely seek out relationships with known crazy people.

    Stupid seems apt.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aimless View Post
    Uh-huh, this sort of gaslighting never gets done to men. Just doesn't happen. And no one ever uses the expression of emotion, real or feigned, as emotional manipulation itself. No, this is purely about the patriarchy trying to control women.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleFuzzy View Post
    Uh-huh, this sort of gaslighting never gets done to men. Just doesn't happen. And no one ever uses the expression of emotion, real or feigned, as emotional manipulation itself. No, this is purely about the patriarchy trying to control women.
    It's obviously a common tactic for dominating another person. The reason for the gender angle isn't that it's never the other way around; it's partly because of the focus of the blog and partly because of the stereotypes that are so widely prevalent in our societies, exemplified by eg. Cain's earlier remarks. Men are dumb, women are crazy hysterical.
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    This may be nit-picking but I think the term crazy doesn't quite fit when applied to women, its too broad and generic and not nearly specific enough to convey what is really at the heart of it -a more apt term would be "loopy".

    Why? Well loopy is a more specific type of crazy, it indicates a cycle, a repetitiveness that only women* can truly comprehend (or endure).

    *Some men can gain a limited understanding of this loopiness but only through continuous exposure to the "loop" over an extended period of time (20 years or so). Sadly it would appear this hard won wisdom is of no benefit to either party unless the male is willing to accept that his role is to always have the last say in any discussion... "Yes dear"

    There is also another factor associated with the "loop" which is that physiologically, psychologically and chemically Women are complicated, while Men are not - this can lead to the belief (or realisation) that the former is crazy (loopy) and the latter is stupid (simple).

    Then again, what would I know, I'm just a man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aimless View Post
    partly because of the stereotypes that are so widely prevalent in our societies, exemplified by eg. Cain's earlier remarks. Men are dumb, women are crazy hysterical.
    Stereotypes exist for a reason. Usually that it holds true for the general case, no matter how much that rubs the feminazis the wrong way.

    Here's a thought for the feminazi's blog: stop acting like a crazy, hysterical bitch and see if there's a corresponding decrease in the number of times your crazy, hysterical bitchiness is remarked upon.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aimless View Post
    It's obviously a common tactic for dominating another person. The reason for the gender angle isn't that it's never the other way around; it's partly because of the focus of the blog and partly because of the stereotypes that are so widely prevalent in our societies, exemplified by eg. Cain's earlier remarks. Men are dumb, women are crazy hysterical.
    Except the blog DID assert that it was pretty much exclusively directed toward women. That's the point of the blog, and this particular stripe of socio-political feminism.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CitizenCain View Post
    Stereotypes exist for a reason. Usually that it holds true for the general case, no matter how much that rubs the feminazis the wrong way.

    Here's a thought for the feminazi's blog: stop acting like a crazy, hysterical bitch and see if there's a corresponding decrease in the number of times your crazy, hysterical bitchiness is remarked upon.
    Oh yeah, as if the term "feminazi" isn't used by men in a derogatory way, to equate women with Hitler.

    Stereo-types can easily be misplaced, just as Musak piped into elevators without surround-sound stereo. "Stereo" denotes audio from more than mono-tone radio sound, and the human ear trying to incorporate the sounds....by categorizing or "typing" them. That's why stereo-types are often wrong. Not all music using violins, cellos or harps are 17th century baroque. Just ask John Williams.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleFuzzy View Post
    Except the blog DID assert that it was pretty much exclusively directed toward women. That's the point of the blog, and this particular stripe of socio-political feminism.
    To be honest I do think it's mostly directed towards women and possibly children, but in that case mostly girls. But that's just my belief.

    A guy on another forum said a good thing:

    Articles like this are written to be polarizing, the author needs to go all-in to make the point. Unfortunately, life isn't like that. Life is those frustrating shades of gray where sometimes a behavior is OK and sometimes that same behavior is not OK. It is incumbent upon all of us to learn the difference and understand why. When in doubt, err on the side of listening versus talking.
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    Quote Originally Posted by GGT View Post
    Oh yeah, as if the term "feminazi" isn't used by men in a derogatory way, to equate women with Hitler.

    Stereo-types can easily be misplaced, just as Musak piped into elevators without surround-sound stereo. "Stereo" denotes audio from more than mono-tone radio sound, and the human ear trying to incorporate the sounds....by categorizing or "typing" them. That's why stereo-types are often wrong. Not all music using violins, cellos or harps are 17th century baroque. Just ask John Williams.
    So, this inability of yours to carry on anything even resembling a conversation... is it just a natural talent, or do you have to work hard at it?

    Quote Originally Posted by Aimless View Post
    To be honest I do think it's mostly directed towards women and possibly children, but in that case mostly girls. But that's just my belief.
    On a related note, most information about breast cancer is directed at women too. Weird. Wonder if there's maybe an underlying reason.
    "I predict future happiness for Americans if they can prevent the government from wasting the labors of the people under the pretense of taking care of them."

    "The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants."

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    Quote Originally Posted by CitizenCain View Post
    So, this inability of yours to carry on anything even resembling a conversation... is it just a natural talent, or do you have to work hard at it? On a related note, most information about breast cancer is directed at women too. Weird. Wonder if there's maybe an underlying reason.
    Quote Originally Posted by termite View Post
    This may be nit-picking but I think the term crazy doesn't quite fit when applied to women, its too broad and generic and not nearly specific enough to convey what is really at the heart of it -a more apt term would be "loopy".

    Why? Well loopy is a more specific type of crazy, it indicates a cycle, a repetitiveness that only women* can truly comprehend (or endure).

    *Some men can gain a limited understanding of this loopiness but only through continuous exposure to the "loop" over an extended period of time (20 years or so). Sadly it would appear this hard won wisdom is of no benefit to either party unless the male is willing to accept that his role is to always have the last say in any discussion... "Yes dear"

    There is also another factor associated with the "loop" which is that physiologically, psychologically and chemically Women are complicated, while Men are not - this can lead to the belief (or realisation) that the former is crazy (loopy) and the latter is stupid (simple).

    Then again, what would I know, I'm just a man.

    These two posts are great, placed against one another. Comparing these two men's perspectives seems to reflect another basic male stereotype----confusion on how to deal with women---especially women who are important in their lives. Maintaining the male ego is always there, even by suggesting its superiority is in simplicity.

    Relationships are not supposed to be competitions in power. But "Yes dear", whether said by man or woman, is a worn out passive-aggressive stereotype best left to Edith and Archie Bunker and entertainment sit-coms of the 70's.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GGT View Post
    Relationships are not supposed to be competitions in power. But "Yes dear", whether said by man or woman, is a worn out passive-aggressive stereotype best left to Edith and Archie Bunker and entertainment sit-coms of the 70's.
    Spoken like someone who's never been in a relationship with a woman, might I point out. Also, and this may come as a shock to you, but you are not all women. Your inability to have anything resembling a normal, adult conversation doesn't apply to all women anymore than your j00 fetish does.
    "I predict future happiness for Americans if they can prevent the government from wasting the labors of the people under the pretense of taking care of them."

    "The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants."

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    GGT, the appropriate response here is "yes dear"
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    Why can't a woman be more like a man?
    Men are so honest, so thoroughly square;
    Eternally noble, historically fair.
    Who, when you win, will always give your back a pat.
    Why can't a woman be like that?
    Why does every one do what the others do?
    Can't a woman learn to use her head?
    Why do they do everything their mothers do?
    Why don't they grow up, well, like their father instead?

    Why can't a woman take after a man?
    Men are so pleasant, so easy to please.
    Whenever you're with them, you're always at ease.

    Would you be slighted if I didn't speak for hours?

    -Of course not.

    Would you be livid if I had a drink or two?

    -Nonsense.

    Would you be wounded if I never sent you flowers?

    -Never.

    Well, why can't a woman be like you?

    One man in a million may shout a bit.
    Now and then, there's one with slight defects.
    One perhaps whose truthfulness you doubt a bit,
    But by and large we are a marvelous sex!

    Why can't a woman take after a man?
    'Cause men are so friendly, good-natured and kind.
    A better companion you never will find.

    If I were hours late for dinner would you bellow?

    -Of course not.


    If I forgot your silly birthday, would you fuss?

    -Nonsense.

    Would you complain if I took out another fellow?

    -Never.

    Why can't a woman be like us?

    Why can't a woman be more like a man?
    Men are so decent, such regular chaps;
    Ready to help you through any mishaps;
    Ready to buck you up whenever you're glum.
    Why can't a woman be a chum?

    Why is thinking something women never do?
    And why is logic never even tried?
    Straightening up their hair is all they ever do.
    Why don't they straighten up the mess that's inside?

    Why can't a woman behave like a man?
    If I was a woman who'd been to a ball,
    Been hailed as a princess by one and by all;
    Would I start weeping like a bathtub overflowing,
    Or carry on as if my home were in a tree?
    Would I run off and never tell me where I'm going?
    Why can't a woman be like me?

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    Crow, one of my favorites!

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    Quote Originally Posted by GGT View Post
    These two posts are great, placed against one another. Comparing these two men's perspectives seems to reflect another basic male stereotype----confusion on how to deal with women---especially women who are important in their lives. Maintaining the male ego is always there, even by suggesting its superiority is in simplicity.

    Relationships are not supposed to be competitions in power. But "Yes dear", whether said by man or woman, is a worn out passive-aggressive stereotype best left to Edith and Archie Bunker and entertainment sit-coms of the 70's.
    Yeah well I was clearly taking the piss with my post - I thought it was pretty funny really.

    If men were all the same and women were all the same (but different) the world would be a dull, predictable and undesirable place but thankfully we are all unique and despite the fact that some men are simple and some women are loopy there is a wide enough spectrum of personality types to suggest these are not representative of their gender..

    The loopy ones are the most fun however.
    Such is Life...

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    Quote Originally Posted by termite View Post
    Yeah well I was clearly taking the piss with my post - I thought it was pretty funny really.
    Your humor is sweet and it's clear you like women, unlike Cain and his patronizing poison.

    The loopy ones are the most fun however.
    Absolutely, never a dull moment.

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    Is it a wonder so many women get raped or otherwise abused??!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aimless View Post
    Is it a wonder so many women get raped or otherwise abused??!
    Um, what?
    Such is Life...

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