Confucius says: Not much fun playing with the fish which is not on the hook.Originally Posted by Knux897
Confucius says: Not much fun playing with the fish which is not on the hook.
I could have had class. I could have been a contender.
I could have been somebody. Instead of a bum
Which is what I am
I aim at the stars
But sometimes I hit London
That only works if you look like Cary Elwes...
I'm not bad. I'm just drawn that way...
So...I found out she was grounded, and thats why she didn't answer my texts...not because she was ignoring me. Apparently shes annoyed now, but if I can find her tomorrow, I plan to apologize and ask her out
I look more like the rodents of unusual size I'm afraid..
Don't apologize, it makes you look weak! I hope you follow through with this; win or lose you'll learn something.
Definitely. It's never a bad thing whether she rejects you or not.
Don't hunt her down though.
pff depends on how you do it
"One day, we shall die. All the other days, we shall live."
He'll cock it up. Place your bets ... NOW!
Ack.
If he apologises, she'll tell him to shut the fuck up, shout at him for a bit, then ignore him. ALL over again.
Then...I guess I won't then.
To quote in englishNess:
Man up son!
it helps to apologise as if you believe it's the right thing to do, rather than as if you're just uncomfortable or just out to appease the crazy
in this case it IS the right thing to do, because you've both been making each other uncomfortable and two wrongs don't make a right
but
have you considered the possibility that her parents have read your texts??!?!
"One day, we shall die. All the other days, we shall live."
Sweet jesus Minxy, don't scare the poor boy. Thats one of many conversations i'm glad to say I've not experienced.
Same here Lor.
But then mobiles weren't around when I was his age.
...it could be worse...far worse...
. . .
Sounds like someone has a story, spill bitch!...it could be worse...far worse...
My texts arn't anything that parents would find offsensive.
However, I don't know what the hell is happening anymore. She totally ignores me,but when I pass her in the halls she gets really loud like shes trying to get my attention. However I keep hearing shes calling me creepy. What the hell did I do? We were such good friends and all of a sudden...
Do what we all said, leave it alone. Move on! She's fucking nuts.
A gentleman doesn't tell, but its just mainly assorted occurrences of being walked in on in various acts by everyone ranging from parents, to room-mates, to friends. A good investment is locks...
...that and spelling things out for clueless people...
GF's Room-mate: *opening door* "Oh hey, I found one of your socks outside, its weird because it was on the door-GAHHHHH!!!!" *rapidly exits room slamming door behind her*
. . .
Well, you made this thread. You've posted several times, and almost every post is you analyzing her every move, trying to see some hidden motives there. I'd say you're just looking for something to reassure yourself she is interested in you.
Of course, she doesn't know of this thread, or this message board, even. However, if your everyday attitude towards her is anything like it appears here, with trying to see the meaning behind her every slightest move, well... It's not that hard to understand how that might appear a tad creepy.
Bad news: girls can pick up this overwhelming attention toward tiniest details of their everyday life. Think of it as some sort of "creepdar" they have. And they don't like it.
More bad news: you yourself won't be able to recognize your actions as "creepy", nor will you stop soon enough.
Even more bad news: Eventually, unless some miracle happens and you realize how you appear to her at this point, she'll start avoiding you.
Extra serving of bad news: you'll be going crazy throughout the whole thing, and won't be able to get her out of your mind. This will get worse as she starts avoiding you, in turn making you act even more creepy. This will cause her to try to avoid you even harder, which... Well, if you're familiar with chemistry, we're talking about a 1st type runaway reaction. If programming's closer to you, it's an infinite loop. You get the idea, don't you.
Good news? Nothing much. Well, first of all, consider this a chance to learn something about relationships. To be exact - a ton of things you shouldn't do. Secondly, you'll forget her once you've chased her away - one less thing to have headache over. Thirdly, you'll probably meet someone new eventually, and this time you'll know how not to appear creepy.
Carthāgō dēlenda est
Well that sucks then. I messaged a friend of ours about her behavior and he asked if I wanted him to talk to her about it. I told him that I wanted him to tell her I wanted to talk to her without all her bullshit. She has seemed to start avoiding me, but in my 5th period she always tries to get people that I'm talking to over where she sits. Almost intentionally to piss me off or to look back at her.
teens have this thing about creepiness
it doesn't have to be particularly creepy
but other than that, BS is preaching it like it is
just keep smilin'
"One day, we shall die. All the other days, we shall live."
also, try not to get angry about it
"oh so you're finally acknowledging me now"
"without all her bullshit"
you're just making yourself angrier!
"One day, we shall die. All the other days, we shall live."
Involving a third person like this is almost never a good idea. Angry messages - bad idea. Period.
I warned you already what to expect. I'm not talking only theory here - I'm actually giving you a chance to learn from my past mistakes so that you don't have to make your own. On the other hand, having experienced all that, I understand that you'll probably do it anyway.
Carthāgō dēlenda est
Absolutely. If she can make anything I do creepy, then theres no harm in trying I guess.
In my honest opinion, I say you lay off for awhile until she initiates a conversation with you.
This.
Such is Life...
It's already been said many times but.... MOVE ON!
She's nuts. Leave her well alone. All she'll end up doing is messing with your head and will make you look like a fool in front of your peers.
If she's playing mind-games (like you think she is) now then imagine what she'd be like if you were actually going out?
Let me share experiences two friends of mine have recently had with crazy women...
1) A guy I know started going out with a girl who has MAJOR self confidence issues. Despite him supporting her she would get ultra jealous of any woman he talked to. She wouldn't let him read FHM or similar magazines because of the sexy models in them, and she banned him from using the internet in case he was watching porn! When he wanted to leave her she threatened to commit suicide. He ended up marrying her. I saw them both at a party about 3 years ago and she told another friend "When I decide I want children I'll just stop using the pill and not tell Chris"... 6 months later she was pregnant.
2) My best mate started going out with a gorgeous Australian chick about a year ago. I liked her at first because she was easy to get along with, but I soon started to realise something wasn't quite right. She had issues but I could never pin down what they were. For example, she'd come home from a bad day at work and tell Tom to leave her "the F**k" alone and if he tried to comfort her she'd tell him to get his "f***ing hands" off her. They used to fall out every week over the most trivial of things and she was so stubborn she'd never apologise even when she was proven wrong. She'd constantly put him down and tell him he was stupid. Eventually her VISA expired and she had to go back to Australia and they'd pretty much broken up before she left. However she made him promise to go and see her to give things one last try. He objected, she then guilted him into going - telling him all her family were disappointed in him etc. He succumbed and flew out there with the idea of spending Christmas and New Year out there. Within a week they were arguing like cat and dog again and she kicked him out of her house on Christmas day. He ended up having to get in contact with some other people he knew travelling Australia so that he'd have a place to stay and spend Christmas in/with.
SO, the moral of the story is DON'T GET INVOLVED WITH CRAZY WOMEN. Even if you think they're gorgeous and they'll change - they WON'T!!!
Now I want you to get your end away as much as anybody else on here, but FFS listen to us and start talking to some other women. Completely ignore this one.
All those moments lost in time... like tears in the rain
Amen, crazy women = trouble.
My ex was a crazy stalker woman. She'd phone me up and question who i'm with even though she saw me go out. I'd bump into her while i'm out as well, even though she said she was staying in or going to see her friends.
One day she had to drive home to see her mother and get some things/have a shower, after she left my best mate came over and asked if i could help out as he needed an extra pair of hands. So, naturally, i said yes. I have nothing to do and he is my best mate after all. So we quickly went to the car shop to get some parts, it's a 10min journey there and back.
Anyway, i got a phone call saying "I came straight back to yours to find you out! Why are you out? You said you wasn't going out! Who are you with? Why are you with them? You're supposed to tell me!".
Eh? I don't have to do anything. If my best mate comes over seeking a few mins of my time then I'll help him out. We had a huge argument as she believed that i must check in at all times and then when i put my foot down and she knew the error in her ways she then tried the emotional guilt trip of "Please don't dump me!". So, i sent her home and said i want to be alone as she's made me angry (very hard to do i can assure you). I walked to my fathers, had something to eat and thought "I don't need this" and dumped her ass.
Best thing i ever done. A few months later i found out she became a temporary lesbian, dyed her hair and got it cut REAL short. Clearly she had issues. To bad it took me a year to find out!
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