The question of the day is, how far can you reasonably be expected to travel to the funeral of a friend? Or for that matter, what obstacles keep us from traveling to funerals? Jobs? Newlywed? Financial? Distance?
This has come up for me this weekend. I had a dear friend die in Fall River, Mass. Now, I'm in Eastern Wyoming, can hitch a ride with a trucker friend all the way back East, so travel costs are minimal, but time off, health reasons, etc, are all conspiring to make me think staying home would be best. Among one of my valid issues is the weather...frankly I can't afford to be snowed in somewhere on the East coast! But, if I don't go, I have all the guilt that is there when her sister calls and asks where was I! And yes, P. will do that!
What is a reasonable distance to expect friends to travel for a funeral? Across the country? Internationally? Give me some ideas here please.