I find your suggestion that all government positions are magically more secure than private sector, simply because government exists, to be insane. Not only are we subject to the same financial planning and uncertainty that the private sector deals with, we're far more vulnerable to a much greater threat. Politicians. All it takes is a shift in the wind, a group (or retiring individual) with an axe to grind, and your livelihood is pulled out from under you. Your work, your position, dissolved with no greater reason than being in the way of some special interest. People completely removed from your line of work, from your chain of command, being able to come in and decide what stays and who goes.
You yourself have declared libraries obsolete. you honestly think there are people in government without the same shortsighted opinion?
complicated more so when there is a family involved, and you're the current bread winner. Maybe loyalty is old fashioned (not to ignore that it can be abused), but I've seen what this place is capable of, I still remember a time when respect flowed down and for valid reasons. Maybe I'm pulling at something that's not there yet, but I believe there is a light at the end of this tunnel.