I am going to say something here that may be inflammatory, but here goes.Originally Posted by Hazir
If people are talking hypothetical money or other peoples' funds, then get the fuck out of this thread. If you are still living under your parents' wing, or in their basement, or in some other sort of subsidized la la land, then shut the fuck up.
Hazir, you and Lolli did what was best for you at the time. You have different needs and concerns, and live in different countries. It doesn't strike me that either of you took the nilly willy path, but both looked at all the variables and proceeded with care.
It's crazy to get a post like that from someone like Fuzzy, a very smart and educated guy, coming in to make a random comment like that.
wiggin also exhibits wisdom. So did Dread when he was scouting around, and trying to make good choices. We've seen this countless times (from the Other Place); Rand and Timbuk and others, discussing their prospects before buying property, taking on debt, signing that bottom line.
Fuzzy, unless you've got something to say about investing your own money, buying your own home, using your own income, then respectfully bow out of the conversation. Whatever you have to say is nothing better than asking an economist or financial planner, and even they don't have all the answers. They are, indeed, often wrong.