On the old CC a debate had started after the media in the US started talking about home-owners who were 'under water' and who defaulted on their mortgage even though they were still able to pay their installments.
The debate sort of withered after Phoxe messed up, but I think it's still interesting to ask this question. In the US, The Netherlands and I imagine most of the countries where the members of this forum come from there has been a consistent push towards people owning the place where they live. Tax deductability of interest paid on mortgages is one clear example of that.
This has created, I think, in people an idea that the moeny you put into a house somehow is different than the money you have put in a savings account or in stocks. I personally think that approach is based on the false idea that the fact that you 'need a place to stay' means that you couldn't use your money better than by owning your own home. Sure enough, that strategy worked out very nicely for me over the last 25 years; I own 2 homes. One little townhouse in Istanbul free of any obligations and one appartment in Amsterdam that is burdened with a mortgage which (after taxes) costs me less than €60 a month in interest.
However, this relative success, doesn't make me think that I couldn't have done better necessarily if I had rented and put the money that went to the people who sold me those places and the interest I paid to the banks into other types of investment.
Maybe my view on this is colored a bit by the fact that I don't have any children and that I don't feel any need for estate planning, other than having the aim of being a relatively poor corpse at some day in the future.
So , is your house an asset if you own it or is it just your home?