You have not shown me what your perspective of poor is, but to me its simple, if you are living pay check to pay check you are poor, you do not have room to really do anything different i.e. grow and escape out of poordom. There is no dollar or pound value to that and I don't find it terribly useful to use a hard threshold like that to define it, either through bad lifestyle choices, lack of knowledge or sheer dumbness/bad luck or what ever you can get into scenarios where the money stated is not going to mean you are comfortable.
That was my point; I do run out of patience to type out a master thesis type of post and my time is quite limited compared to what I had so I may end up clipping a few corners but I am not saying stuff just because I can.
This is simple I'll address these as I go along but. The main point I was making is fact sheets you read off and the economic models you believe in are basically distorted and unreliable they always give the illusion that things are great when in reality they are kind of miserable.
I am also saying here at this point that pointing out that $50K median income is actually not really that great, even in a partnership if you are lucky you might have close to 100K but usually one partner out earns the other by a good margin, I don't want to muck things up too much by throwing in the gender inequality business so am expressly stating that isn't a point I am making or attempting to make.
This isn't about where you rate yourself in your personal situation or where I stand or where anyone else stands on the scale, if you feel happy where you are then good for you my point was not to put people below an arbitrary income level combined or not down, the fact is there are people so ridiculously rich that unless you happened to be that guy you are gonna feel small, I'm not that guy, wish I was but then I don't want the paranoia that comes with that kind of affluence either.
Anyway back on topic, you are attempting to disect things and rationalise them a little by saying X is not poor, that was not what I was getting at I was getting as others I think have pointed out that you can not have the whole lot at that pay grade/level.
I am talking about America here not the UK or anywhere else in the world, America is different, in a normal family household, the husband and the wife or boyfriend/girlfriend or the LGBT equivalents actually do have to have one vehicle each, to go to work and deal with chores, it is pretty normal for an average working American to pull 25,000 to 50,000 miles a year on roads, you have to replace these vehicles at some point, five years is usually the max for the people who have ridiculous commutes to make ends meet and I am not counting truckers in that cos those guys do stupid miles.
In the senario of children even if they are not yet of driving age, 14/15/16 depending on state/circumstance I think it can be lower, if you have three or four children and you want to do a family trip somewhere, you will need a people carrier type vehicle, while a pick up truck, a four door sedan might be OK to get to work or use at work it won't be right for the whole family. Yes you could buy a station wagon or something but once your children get over a certain size that stuffing them in the back isn't going to work on 8 to 12 hour drive to a national park 1500 miles away.
Yes many Americans would like their two days a week off back the ones that have jobs, a lot are working 2 or more jobs at the same time, or have to take things that are not really complementary to actually having a day of rest somewhere in the week. The particulars are not important what is important is there is a lot of time lost due to commutes or non standard work that does not fit the job but is still expected of you.
I am going to include time taken away by doing a degree while working, you are still working/studying, rest is an important part of life and there isn't enough of it for those that actually work hard, the play hard thing does not happen as much as it used to. If you are pulling 90-100 hour weeks because you have a job, commute (dead time) and study with your remaining free time, there isn't much time left for you to spend with family and there certainly isn't much time left to do anything other than sleep after that. Assuming you have not been popping stimulants all day just to function, let alone achieve peak performance.
Breaking a routine and doing other stuff is pretty important it should be expected that anyone in any stratum of life should be able to take actual real holiday time off, not the BS mandated national holidays only and it is generally frowned on for obvious reasons to take more than a week off at a time from your current work place pretty much anywhere in the world, if you are able to do so it usually means the work you do is not that important and you are eligible for being let go come the next round of cuts.
This is definitely a difference of opinion thing, if can't afford to fly is a category to me that is a special kind of poor, that is pretty much being destitute, they are different words and while I was earlier guilty of not fully explaining things I think you should if you are going to break it down that much use the correct terminology, however in terms of making a general point I don't see the value of break it down to that level.
As I hinted at earlier my definition of poor is more along of the lines of being trapped forever with no realistic chance of upward social/economic movement, either due to a lack of time/resources/some special scenario that is applicable to that individual or otherwise.
The whole class thing is important in the fact that the middle class is being wiped out and pushed into the poor class. Which is why I made the reference to airline tickets. I think the only reason business class is not called 2nd class is because they don't want people who travel economy to realise, hey damn we are truly third class, i.e. poor. If business class is being wiped out because its too expensive for even business travelers that should tell you something, its not a realistic demographic.
So in short what I am saying is, there is no future for a middle class which might have had some chance of breaking out of its own area and into the rich on an individual basis not as a whole class.
I had hoped you would have had more guts to say what you think the threshold for being actually rich is, you got too bogged down in trying to convince yourself that you are completely right to even look at your own data again.
I will state this, if you had ten million dollars in the bank as cash on hand, I would not call that rich, I would not call it poor but I would not call it rich. People talk about being millionairs and being made, having one or two weather it is tied up in property or other non cash equivalents is definitely not enough to see you through retirement. Maybe that would be some form of middle class, but being middle class is nothing great which is the point I am making.
That was not implied as a standalone point, at this point looking at your post you sound like you should have taken a five minute break before writing this response.
If that is what you feel then good for you.
Like I said the point of the scenario was to say the American dream has faded into dust and in a way the country is in various forms of collapse for it, yet you have plucky individuals such as yourself and Loki who happily trot out the economic charts and go look see its a wonderful world. It ain't. That is my point.
As I said earlier that is a special classification of poor, which I call destitute, and yes that is a valid subset of a subset of a subset of people, but it does not invalidate what I am saying which is, even if you are middle class as in have both partners in a working marriage/relationship or what ever pulling in a combined $150-$200K, that demographic is just getting by really, they are not really living life as much as they deserve, which extends all the way down to the homeless and destitute no one deserves it but like I said I take issue when ever someone pulls out a chart and says see its all dandy you are doing great.
One other thing I would like to add. I have been using gross income for most of this, I have not used net. At 200K you pretty much are paying 33% income tax straight off the bat, unless you manage to find a tax pro that can get you through some loopholes to get it lower.
And just for reference if you were earning over $400K the US IRS considers you rich and your income tax is almost 40% maybe not as high as elsewhere in the world but depending on your state you may have state income taxes and other levies as well. All in all if you don't get someone to help you out with the tax code because you know enough or are smart enough to do it yourself then really 50% of your income is gone via a lot of smaller taxes or stealth taxes. That includes stuff like property tax, rent or loans etc.
As far as the less affluent are concerned it is those stealth taxes that hurt the most or mandatory insurance, I personally don't have a problem with mandatory car insurance other than it being a bit over priced. Nor do I have an issue with the structure concept of any tax system, the implementation and reciprocal services, am less than enthused with. It sort of works, but it could be better for sure.