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    This particular church doesn't own anything, according to the article. It has a debt of €1.2 million that should be paid back to the bank.
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    Why should the Vatican pay? The Pope may be the sprirtual leader of the catholics, but in essence he's just another bishop of another diocese.

    Should catholics from no-matter where have to pay for the fact that the people in some far away place couldn't check the unacceptable behaviour of their priests?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazir View Post
    Why should the Vatican pay? The Pope may be the sprirtual leader of the catholics, but in essence he's just another bishop of another diocese.

    Should catholics from no-matter where have to pay for the fact that the people in some far away place couldn't check the unacceptable behaviour of their priests?
    Well, the Pope is the closest and most direct representative of the entity the church-goers are buying services from (YHWH). That sets him apart from the other bishops.
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    Yes, that's repeating what I said, but it doesn't establish liability.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazir View Post
    Yes, that's repeating what I said, but it doesn't establish liability.
    I'm not talking about spiritual leadership, I'm saying the Pope is the owner of the establishment ran by the silent partner, God.
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    The mandates come from the top. "The Vatican" is more than just the Pope, it's an entire heirarchy that makes the rules and holds the purse strings.

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    Look at it this way. If some leading figure at Blizzard failed to prevent kiddie porno from being placed in WoW, shouldn't he be held liable?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazir View Post
    This particular church doesn't own anything, according to the article. It has a debt of €1.2 million that should be paid back to the bank.
    If they have no property, then having the parishioners shoulder that debt isn't going to magic the church (the physical location) and services back into existence, and its likely that if its been this way for a while then they've already found ways to cope with its loss...what exactly would the motivation for them be then?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazir View Post
    Why should the Vatican pay? The Pope may be the sprirtual leader of the catholics, but in essence he's just another bishop of another diocese.

    Should catholics from no-matter where have to pay for the fact that the people in some far away place couldn't check the unacceptable behaviour of their priests?
    For the same reason the parishioners have to pay. Because they want the diocese to be offering the services it offers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nessus View Post
    I'm not talking about spiritual leadership, I'm saying the Pope is the owner of the establishment ran by the silent partner, God.
    I am pretty certain the provinces of the catholic church disagree with you there.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazir View Post
    So we have a church, a catholic church with parishes, dioceses and a world wide hierarchy. Parts of this church have a problem; a number of its religious workers have problems keeping their fingers and other body parts to themselves. The church tries to cover the problems up, but it doesn't work. Bit by bit everything comes out, and the general picture seems to be that where the catholic church was strongest the abuse was the worst.

    Now we're moving into the next phase; the victims are demanding retribution for their suffering and in many cases they actually get sums awarded, either by courts or in settlements. But, that also means that the catholic church, in the hardest hit areas got into financial problems. One of those areas is the diocese of bisshop Dennis Brennan. So far €8 million was paid in settlements in 48 cases, 13 other cases are still pending but they also will mean that the church will have to pay up (probably). Besides money paid in settlements there is a €2 million bill in legal fees. The bisshop has mortgaged his residence but at the moment is €1.2 million short. Now he's looking for a new source of income and he has turned to the people in his diocese, asking them to financially help their church to pay for the costs of the abuse.

    Some people think this is an outrage. I personally find it a bit strange that these people don't understand that the church as an organisation may have had real deep pockets but is now reaching the point where emptying out those pockets even further simply means that the church goes into liquidation and ceases to exist. Somehow I think that's not something most of its members want to see happen.

    So, what you think, is it reasonable that the bisshop expects his flock to pay up?
    Oh, now I UNDERSTAND why AtariCC forbids religious talk.
    Talking about catholic church is to talk about an institution that uses people money to subsidize sexual behavior of priests...
    And of course, sex is not allowed there.

    And it makes me think that church should be classified by ESRB as "R".
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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleFuzzy View Post
    For the same reason the parishioners have to pay. Because they want the diocese to be offering the services it offers.
    Ok, that makes sense, sort of. You're saying that in the end the entire church is one big community that should hang in together.

    Quote Originally Posted by Illusions View Post
    If they have no property, then having the parishioners shoulder that debt isn't going to magic the church (the physical location) and services back into existence, and its likely that if its been this way for a while then they've already found ways to cope with its loss...what exactly would the motivation for them be then?
    You understand that offering a service to a community will cost money in today's society no matter how you turn it? So this community 'catholic church' is going to be back at some point after going bust, with funds. Maybe it will be poorer than it was before, but it will still have money and can't really deny liability for the damages awarded. Because if they would, they would no longer be part of the wider catholic community.

    The way they have found to cope with the loss is temporary, through a mortgage. Now they are asking their parishioners to help pay for that debt. That means however that parishioners are going to pay for the abuse indirectly.

    I think that was always the case and I don't understand the outrage now that somebody has said the obvious; the catholic church doesn't make money out of thin air and every cent of damages awarded is going to be paid for in one way or another by people who detest the abuse. It's really funny how people try to close their eyes to the fact that when all is said and done the church hasn't had any other role than that of a conduit passing money from one innocent party to the other innocent party.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazir View Post
    You understand that offering a service to a community will cost money in today's society no matter how you turn it? So this community 'catholic church' is going to be back at some point after going bust, with funds. Maybe it will be poorer than it was before, but it will still have money and can't really deny liability for the damages awarded. Because if they would, they would no longer be part of the wider catholic community.
    I'm saying the service can be rendered at a much smaller cost, and by those not as closely tied to the abuse. A personal anecdote here...

    Due to the fact that I no longer wish to be a part of Christianity or the Catholic Church as a whole, I've only been to church when my family decides to go for holidays. This leaves a large gap between Church visits. During last year's gap a wealthy parishioner died and left a large sum of money to the church my family frequents. Did they do something reasonable or charitable with it? Nope...it was funneled directly into aesthetic upgrades for the church and those associated with it. It wasn't really necessary either, as it wasn't like the place was run down. Basically it could be summed up like this:

    If it was made of brass it was replaced with gold or gold plating. If it was granite or another stone, it was replaced with marble. If it was plastic, it was replaced with glass or crystal. If it was glass, it was replaced with better glass. If it was wood, it was re-varnished and polished. If it was carpet, it was completely replaced. If it was unpainted, it was painted. If there was a sculpture of a saint/holy figure, it was replaced with a better sculpture of the same saint/holy figure. If it was electrical, it was replaced. In ceiling microphones were added to the coir area, replacing the standard hand-held and stand-mounted ones. Anyone else who needed a mic got a clip-on wireless one. If it was cotton, its now silk. If it wasn't cotton, it now is. The main Bible that is read at the altar is now larger, with gold trimmed pages, and intricate metalwork (gold-plated or gold-looking) on the front and back-cover.

    Improvement to the actual services? Minimal or non-existent. Increase in the number of people attending? Actually less, and declining. Amount of times they implore the parish to donate money because they need it? At the same or increasing levels.

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    Why can't the church just file bankruptcy? These people seeking restitution would then become a creditor like everybody else.
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    Are the settlements attempting to exact retribution for the offenses themselves, or the church cover-up? Or for allowing them to happen? Or... what?

    Seems to me that makes a difference to who should be paying the settlement.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Steely Glint View Post
    Are the settlements attempting to exact retribution for the offenses themselves, or the church cover-up? Or for allowing them to happen? Or... what?

    Seems to me that makes a difference to who should be paying the settlement.
    Why ? In both cases it seems to me that the church is asked to pay at all because they have some sort of liability.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Illusions View Post
    I'm saying the service can be rendered at a much smaller cost, and by those not as closely tied to the abuse. A personal anecdote here...

    Due to the fact that I no longer wish to be a part of Christianity or the Catholic Church as a whole, I've only been to church when my family decides to go for holidays. This leaves a large gap between Church visits. During last year's gap a wealthy parishioner died and left a large sum of money to the church my family frequents. Did they do something reasonable or charitable with it? Nope...it was funneled directly into aesthetic upgrades for the church and those associated with it. It wasn't really necessary either, as it wasn't like the place was run down. Basically it could be summed up like this:

    If it was made of brass it was replaced with gold or gold plating. If it was granite or another stone, it was replaced with marble. If it was plastic, it was replaced with glass or crystal. If it was glass, it was replaced with better glass. If it was wood, it was re-varnished and polished. If it was carpet, it was completely replaced. If it was unpainted, it was painted. If there was a sculpture of a saint/holy figure, it was replaced with a better sculpture of the same saint/holy figure. If it was electrical, it was replaced. In ceiling microphones were added to the coir area, replacing the standard hand-held and stand-mounted ones. Anyone else who needed a mic got a clip-on wireless one. If it was cotton, its now silk. If it wasn't cotton, it now is. The main Bible that is read at the altar is now larger, with gold trimmed pages, and intricate metalwork (gold-plated or gold-looking) on the front and back-cover.

    Improvement to the actual services? Minimal or non-existent. Increase in the number of people attending? Actually less, and declining. Amount of times they implore the parish to donate money because they need it? At the same or increasing levels.

    Ok. so you didn't like how they spent the money. Now, let's assume all the money is gone, the buildings and art sold and they get together in someone's barn on sundays but there are still victims waiting for their retribution? Are you ok with the fact that they don't get anything because they were late in the line and the community is too stingy to pay up?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Illusions View Post
    I'm saying the service can be rendered at a much smaller cost, and by those not as closely tied to the abuse. A personal anecdote here...

    Due to the fact that I no longer wish to be a part of Christianity or the Catholic Church as a whole, I've only been to church when my family decides to go for holidays. This leaves a large gap between Church visits. During last year's gap a wealthy parishioner died and left a large sum of money to the church my family frequents. Did they do something reasonable or charitable with it? Nope...it was funneled directly into aesthetic upgrades for the church and those associated with it. It wasn't really necessary either, as it wasn't like the place was run down. Basically it could be summed up like this:

    If it was made of brass it was replaced with gold or gold plating. If it was granite or another stone, it was replaced with marble. If it was plastic, it was replaced with glass or crystal. If it was glass, it was replaced with better glass. If it was wood, it was re-varnished and polished. If it was carpet, it was completely replaced. If it was unpainted, it was painted. If there was a sculpture of a saint/holy figure, it was replaced with a better sculpture of the same saint/holy figure. If it was electrical, it was replaced. In ceiling microphones were added to the coir area, replacing the standard hand-held and stand-mounted ones. Anyone else who needed a mic got a clip-on wireless one. If it was cotton, its now silk. If it wasn't cotton, it now is. The main Bible that is read at the altar is now larger, with gold trimmed pages, and intricate metalwork (gold-plated or gold-looking) on the front and back-cover.

    Improvement to the actual services? Minimal or non-existent. Increase in the number of people attending? Actually less, and declining. Amount of times they implore the parish to donate money because they need it? At the same or increasing levels.

    That's called a targeted donation. The parishioner may have "earmarked" the bequeathment for that specific church, and only its physical upgrades not related to daily operational expenditures (like heat bills or paying staff) or mission purposes (feeding the poor or going toward adoption services). It could also have been made as a "discretionary" expenditure, which means the priest and staff/parish gets to decide the priority and if the money goes to its nursery or its school, or the building, or its parishioners in services.

    That's all a legal contractual thing related to a dead donor, unrelated to the OP--since Hazir says there's no money or assets to pay the litigant's claim. I'm guessing if this church Illusions posted about was the one sued, some court judgment might say they have to sell all that to pay their liability debt.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazir View Post
    Ok. so you didn't like how they spent the money. Now, let's assume all the money is gone, the buildings and art sold and they get together in someone's barn on sundays but there are still victims waiting for their retribution? Are you ok with the fact that they don't get anything because they were late in the line and the community is too stingy to pay up?
    Community too stingy to pay up? Look, they didn't molest anyone, nor provoke the molestation, so the options is either to have the innocent parishioners pay someone money for being molested by a priest, or said molested person not get any money because as much monetary revenge as possible has already been dolled out.

    If you were a part of a club or other non-religious group and one of its members went out and molested someone, do you feel that you should have to pay out of pocket if the offending member can't?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Illusions View Post
    Community too stingy to pay up? Look, they didn't molest anyone, nor provoke the molestation, so the options is either to have the innocent parishioners pay someone money for being molested by a priest, or said molested person not get any money because as much monetary revenge as possible has already been dolled out.

    If you were a part of a club or other non-religious group and one of its members went out and molested someone, do you feel that you should have to pay out of pocket if the offending member can't?
    But if that were the case; why should anybody but the offender pay?
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    There is another option, though. Just like any business with a larger figurehead and structure that lays the foundation and finances at local levels. The Vatican should pay if the diocese or parish can't.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GGT View Post
    There is another option, though. Just like any business with a larger figurehead and structure that lays the foundation and finances at local levels. The Vatican should pay if the diocese or parish can't.
    But you know that's not really the way the catholic church is structured. The dioceses don't belong to the Vatican. Also, how much has been doled out already, and how many more claims are there? Even if you take all real estate and all art as 'richdom' of the Vatican, then still its resources aren't unlimited.

    Not to forget the fact that you are facing the moral dilemma about paying those damages out of funds that could have been used to educate or give health care in a third world country.
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    I'm not Catholic so no, I don't really "know". But every diocese funnels money to the Vatican.

    It's not a moral dilemma as far as I'm concerned. If the Roman Catholic Church has priests molesting children all over the world, and clerics covering it up, the other good global works they do is tainted.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GGT View Post
    I'm not Catholic so no, I don't really "know". But every diocese funnels money to the Vatican.

    It's not a moral dilemma as far as I'm concerned. If the Roman Catholic Church has priests molesting children all over the world, and clerics covering it up, the other good global works they do is tainted.
    Are you seriously claiming that the crimes of the few is justification for punishing the entire community?

    Maybe what's wrong with all of this is that people expect damages from people other than the ones who harmed them. Mostly because those particular people don't have enough money to satisfy their desire for revenge.
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    Make each abuser to add a 0.5% tax on catholic church revenue.
    I bet money can push harder than God inside their bureaucracy.

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    When it comes to law suits for child molestation and how to compensate the victims? When it comes to the Roman Catholic Church and how they've shown a pattern of denial, cover-up, and abrogation? Yes.

    EDIT you did a fast edit before I posted, Hazir. The "problem" is that the RCC has a history of priests molesting children, going back decades. Instead of dealing with it head-on, they just moved the priests to other parishes, where they continued to molest.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazir View Post
    Why ? In both cases it seems to me that the church is asked to pay at all because they have some sort of liability.
    If it the issue is the cover up then it is appropriate for the organization as whole to fit the bill.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Steely Glint View Post
    If it the issue is the cover up then it is appropriate for the organization as whole to fit the bill.
    Or the people who did it. I don't think the catholic church has a policy to abuse children and then cover that abuse up. This didn't happen everywhere it seems.
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    Yes, which is why the question of what the compensation is for is important.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazir View Post
    Ok, that makes sense, sort of. You're saying that in the end the entire church is one big community that should hang in together.
    They already do that, to a moderate extent. There has long been a redistributionist trend between Catholic organizations and regions. Now it may well be that others elsewhere, including the Vatican itself, simply don't have the available resources to divert, or rank this as too low a priority on the list, but to refuse to even appeal for aid from the rest of the community is irresponsible. It also strikes me as somewhat reprehensible to ask the harmed community for such aid and not anyone else.
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