Well they held a referendum today on the pay back of roughly €3 bn to the UK and The Netherlands and the deal was rejected by 98% of the voters. Now, I think it was always a bit funny to have a vote by debtors on whether or not they want to pay back their debts, but here we have it confirmed; the Icelanders don't want to pay back source
I guess that's going to hurt them more than us, for 'us' the sum is relatively minor, but it is a matter of principle and even more so now that both in the UK and The Netherlands we're going to have elections which almost certainly will be followed by severe cuts in spending in both countries. In such a situation it's not going to be popular to use tax-money to bail out yet another irresponsable society. The Greeks are in the EU and already are learning the boundaries of solidarity, but Iceland isn't part of the EU, as a matter of fact it stands all on its own and an Icelandic default isn't going to hurt quite as much as a Greek default.
On the other hand it may be a good lesson for the Greeks and other southern European countries to see what happens to your economy if the state goes into default. That may even be a reason why some EU governments don't really think it's all that bad if Iceland is pushed over the rim.
What will happen after this weekend is everybody's guess, but I think the least we can expect is a downgrading of Icelandic sovereign debt to junk status, a freezing of funds that were reserved for Iceland both in the scandinavian countries (if Iceland is not going to pay back they can't afford to lend), likewise in the IMF and I think that regardless of what the fancy of the day is in Iceland (one day they all want to be members, the next day they are against it in a huge majority) EU membership is not going to happen for at least another decade. If not longer.