I believe in self-determination for the Northern Irish.

I don't want them to be fucked over, but I'm prepared for it to happen if the Republic of Ireland and EU aren't prepared to negotiate. I'm not prepared to be blackmailed into fucking over the entire country to pacify one small part of it.

The people of Northern Ireland can choose their own destiny. If they vote to stay in the UK as they are at the moment that's their choice. If they choose to vote for a border poll and merging with the Republic I'd respect that too. Either way its they who choose their own destiny, just like we should choose ours. And we've chosen to be independent and everything else must start from that premise first before anything else.