There's a interesting little story that has cropped up in my neighborhood in the last few days. It revolves around a 77 year old woman who worked in the overcrowded Trader Joe's in the center of our neighborhood for quite a number of years. I remember her well - she always had a kind word to say about my kids and was always friendly and upbeat. I certainly enjoyed interacting with her.
A few days ago, she was fired. Her offense? She knowingly sold alcohol to a minor - in this case, a family member who was several months shy of his 21st birthday.
There's been a minor uproar in the community. News stories were written, people have contacted the store, and a GoFundMe started for her benefit has already accrued nearly $40k in the space of a few days. Most of the messages in the GFM alternately blame TJ's for firing her or suggest that there should be more 'forgiveness'. The original text of the GFM calls it a 'simple serious mistake'.
I don't really know how to think about this whole scenario. On the one hand, I do indeed think she was an asset to the store and would hope there was some scope for forgiveness and leniency on the part of management - clearly many people thought she was fantastic. But on the other hand, this wasn't minor, nor was it really a mistake. She knowingly broke the law, for a family member, in the process endangering the store's liquor license (which would likely make it unprofitable) and potentially exposing them to substantial fines. There should be consequences for such an action, and while there may be mitigations I can certainly see why a store would want to fire her (not to mention that it is likely spelled out clearly in their disciplinary policies).
But if she should have been fired - what is the role of the rapidly growing GFM? Is it a consolation prize, an expression of love for her long service, or is it a way to let her escape the justified consequences for her lawbreaking?
I'm not sure I have articulated to myself a sufficiently complete framework to understand the role forgiveness - both institutional and personal - plays in mitigating the consequences of a bad action. Should forgiveness erase the original misdeed, or should it parallel real consequences that arise from said misdeed?