The fact that the GOP continues to piss off women, who are not a minority, is itself a signal of how unresponsive the party is to changing social norms. How is the GOP going to win elections when minorities make up a quarter of the voters (and rising)? Or when they lose the women vote by 10%?
And yes, the GOP stands for a lot of things, which is why it's stupid for it to piss off potential voters with some of its extremist stances.
A) Stop talking about contraception. Period. It's stupid and isn't a vote getter anywhere.
B) Stop emphasizing abortion (though it wouldn't hurt if the GOP accepted abortion in the first trimester). It's a net vote loser. It might get votes in the South, but the South is reliably Republican anyway.
C) Stop talking about gays. If the GOP wants to suck up to the traditionalist vote by maintaining its opposition to gay marriage, that's fine (from an electoral perspective). The problem is all the talk about gay agendas/conspiracies and homophobia in general. There are a lot of Americans who oppose gay marriage, but get turned off by bigotry.
D) Stop pandering to the lunatics with the opposition to Shari'a law in the US (a major threat to the US

). Stop opposing the building of mosques; it's racist. Stop claiming the Palestinian people do not exist (even if the GOP supporters believe that) - all it does is piss people off.
E) Stop claiming that anyone who doesn't go to church is immoral/not American. The agnostic portion of the population is increasing, and there is absolutely no reason to piss off 10-20% of the population.
F) Stop taking a hardline on immigration reform. Regardless of the merits of the various proposals, taking an extreme position will have a devastating effect on the GOP's ability to win the Hispanic vote. You might think it's fair or unfair, but fairness isn't what gets parties elected. If the Republican leadership had a brain, they'd push for a partial amnesty (while forcing people to pay back-baxes) and force Obama and the Senate to accept or reject the proposal.
G) Stop being anti-science. It's damaging on many levels. First, anyone who cares about science is automatically being turned against the GOP. Even traditionally right-leaning professions/fields like economics and engineering are becoming Democratic due to the assault on science and science spending. And second, most people accept global warming and that percentage is increasing. The global warming denial does nothing but make the GOP look anachronistic, as well as pissing off environmentalists who in another era were reliable conservative voters.
H) Stop promoting an odd combination of isolationism and blindly antagonistic foreign policy. The GOP loses credibility when it refuses to have reasonable solutions to complex international problems. There's nothing wrong with talking to enemies or throwing them some carrots. You could always bomb them later.
I) Stop the obsession with no tax increases. High taxes are bad. Most people accept that. Cutting spending by $700 billion per year is just not feasible. By opposing all taxes, the GOP is supporting high deficits. Agree to a 25 (from taxes)/75 (from spending) split in cutting the deficit and most people will be happy.
J) Stop the obsession with ideological purity. No party is going to win 50% of the vote if it insists on booting out anyone who disagrees with any part of its platform. Allow for regional diversity. Don't try to force southern ideology on the rest of the country. What gets a Republican elected in Louisiana doesn't get a Republican elected in Indiana.
So yes, the GOP has plenty of policies that it should be lauded for, but they get drowned out by the idiocy mentioned above.