
Originally Posted by
Lewkowski
Do you not know the difference between love and pride?
If you are proud of someone who hasn't done anything to deserve it that is pretty sad. Woohoo you were born I'm so proud... bah.
Actions have consequences and that is a good thing. I will tell my child I am proud of them when they do something to merit it. Otherwise you're just sending mixed messages and telling them actions have no consequences.